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olmue ([personal profile] olmue) wrote2013-01-28 04:04 pm
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Grandma's quilt

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My grandma gave me this quilt the Christmas I turned four. I still use it! But I've noticed that some of the internal stitching is wearing away. So today I decided to resew some of it.

Well. I realize that "one does not simply walk in" and sew a quilt in a day. I think this is going to be a bit of a project. But it's nice doing it, since it makes me think of my grandma. Besides, she sewed this quilt in Idaho, and I am repairing it in Idaho, so it has sort of made a circle.

My grandma died when I was nine, and since I was born in New Jersey and lived there until shortly after my grandma died, I didn't get to see her very often. But we visited when we could, and she always sent "letters" to my sister and me--since we couldn't read for a long time, they usually were one-page drawings of life around the farm. She was a great artist/illustrator! She was also smart. She was born in 1902 but went to college--the same one I went to! She had a very fun time there, as well as learning a lot. She was very talented in art, music, academics, and sewing. Her mom was a professional seamstress, and Grandma often sewed us clothes and mailed them cross country, and they always fit. She played the violin her whole life, and performed at someone's funeral three weeks before she died. She had perfect pitch (something I don't have!). When she was 60, she decided it was time to learn the piano, so she did. You can see that she came from a family of book lovers: here is her father (my great-grandpa who died in church when he stood up to sing with the choir and keeled over dead in a heart attack--yes, I often think of him whenever I have to perform anything!) and her brother:

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I love it that in the background you can see the bookshelves OVERFLOWING with books. Yes. It is in the DNA!

She had a piano and we didn't, and every time we went to visit, she didn't care if we banged around on it. I started learning to play on her piano. She was from Salt Lake and was a city girl, but she married a farmer from Idaho and moved to the wilds up here (which were VERY wild in 1920!) She put her foot down when they moved into a log cabin and she found a long black snake winding around the wedding gifts that were on the floor. My grandpa immediately built a real house after that!

Here she is when she was young: my cousin looks just like her:

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And here she is with her book-loving family (she is the standing girl with the big bow):

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It's funny how much we can be like relatives we've barely even been around, who may have even lived and died before we were born. We once met cousins in the Czech Republic who were so like my dad it was EERIE--even though they'd never met. I guess the things you do in your family get passed down a lot further than you realize. I'm glad for all the good things that got passed down to us!

[identity profile] robinellen.livejournal.com 2013-01-28 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
That's so neat :) The quilts in our family are from great-aunts, I think (though I don't have them -- my mom does). Both my grandmas were crocheters, and I'm pretty sure that's how I started too (I think my mom's mom taught me or encouraged my mom to teach me). Other than that, though, nothing really passed down. Both my parents are musical (both clarinetists), but neither got that from their own parents. My dad's mom only had an 8th grade education, and she also has narcilepsy (when you fall asleep extremely easily), so she's not a huge reader (she will fall asleep if she sits down too long). My mom's mom was a teacher and was very educated (for women of her time), but she didn't enjoy reading very much. My aunt (my mom's sister) is the biggest reader I know (other than myself, ha) -- but both my parents are readers too. Interestingly enough, my cousins read but nothing like my aunt and I (and now D) do.

Anyway, it's really special that you have such records from your family like this -- and very cool how many things were passed down :)

[identity profile] olmue.livejournal.com 2013-01-28 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I bet you have family members who love nature, though!

It's not just visible stuff like music that gets passed down--it's the way people interact with their family, too. I was reading about my husband's family, and several generations back, it said how the great-grandpa loved gentle pokes and good-natured teasing and plenty of humor, and I can see that in the family now. I bet your descendants will have a love of nature and hiking/camping with the family (as well as a love of books--we can always add good things to the list!)

[identity profile] robinellen.livejournal.com 2013-01-29 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's a good point. We get our love of nature and being outdoors from both sides (and from DH's dad's family too). The teasing comes from DH and from my dad, his dad, his uncle, etc. So yeah, you're right :)

(And we are certainly doing our best to brainwash our kiddos about the outdoors -- and even about living in CO, ha.)

[identity profile] fabulousfrock.livejournal.com 2013-01-29 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
I love it when you post family pictures! =)

[identity profile] olmue.livejournal.com 2013-01-29 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
I love it that we have so many! My parents were quite a bit older when they married and had kids, so I never got to meet a lot of these people. But I love old family photos even of strangers (that opening scene from Arestin has always stuck with me, the family she "bought" at a garage sale...) I feel sad when I see them at thrift stores because I feel like they should belong to someone!

[identity profile] newport2newport.livejournal.com 2013-01-30 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
I love your family pictures, too--and the stories that accompany them. :)